Having a major life upset?

The sad thing is, theres nothing you can say....Me and my mom doesnt talk because she was exactly like your mom. People dont open their eyes until they are ready to see what horrible things they have done. Write a letter. I know it seems crazy and soap opera style but im serious. shes gonna have to know eventually. stand up for yourself. you dont need that. Most importantly, dont let it affect they way you feel about yourself because that can easily happen. Its not your fault she is like that and you cant change it. Good luck!