Words of encouragement?

Me and my hubby have been in this for 2 years...two years of abuse, cheating and betrayal. Hes leaving tomorrow to go back to his Country...and were getting a divorce. He physically harmed me today and thats enough for me, But at the same time...I am going to miss the good times, and what we had. The best form of therapy for me is just dropping him cold turkey..I dont want any contact with him, almost like hes dead to me. Besides the divorce, which were going to work by mediators. I'm so soft hearted and emortional yet he doesnt care. Can someone please give me some words of encouragement so I can move on and get over him??